Relationships are wonderful. Unfortunately there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. It will be surprising to see any relationship without problems. Actually, the beauty of every relationship lies in solving problems that arise in due course because every attempt to solving an issue leads to new dimensions of understanding.
The relationship goes to the next level every time and more and more matured by this way. There are several problems in every relationship, I will focus on 6 of the most common ones.
Communication itself is not an issue, but it could easily be an issue if not used well. Communication is so important
in a relationship, since I do not think that there is any other way a relationship could survive.
Communication can be of any form, verbal, body language, or any other indirect forms. Effective communication
is not a skill that only certain people are possessing. It is just a combination of common sense and some practice. However it can solve hell lot of problems even before they appear.
The couple should take all possible measures to solve every conflict by arguing in an effective manner
. Further more, if there arises any difference of opinion, the couple should get back and make up as soon as possible by effectively communicating.
This is not a thing that everyone would want to do or any one will be willing to do. Whether oneshould compromise in a relationshipor not is one of the highly debated questions. But those who understand the importance of the relationship
they are in, will try to make compromises then and there, when needed.
Compromising tells you how much you value the relationship. It also tells your partner how much you love him/her. But it is not advisable to compromise on an extreme which will create problems later.
Also you should also avoid situations of too much compromising, since this will make your partner to always expect you to compromise on things.
This is not actually an issue, but this can be an issue. When you decide to get committed in a relationship where you know not much about your partner or when you decide to get committed at the wrong time of the either the stage of the relationship or your life, things won't be nice. This can lead to problems, some can be solved while others can result in ending of relationships
See how tragic it will be that you end your relationship due to a problem caused by making wrong kind of commitment decisions.
It is normal to get bored once in a while. We get bored always with various things; not only in the relationship, but at home, at work, or even with friends. But getting bored in a relationship will either cause a problem in the near future or would have been due to a problem from the past.
In any way, one should always find ways to deal with boredom in a relationship
since if it continues to exist can it can ultimately destroy your relationship.
Rejection will hurt. Anyone who puts in love and affection in a relationship will want the same back, if not in full, at least some amount. But a total rejection will badly hurt. If your partner rejects you, it can be due to one of several reasons.
Sometimes there can be no serious reason for rejection and things in this case will come back to normal soon. Whatever be the case, the mere fact to know that your partner is rejecting your could be very painful and can lead to stressful situations.
Cheating is a very bad form of a problem in a relationship because all other problems are known, but this one can be unknown for a very long time.
When it is known, two things hurt:
(i) the fact that your partner has cheated on you and
(ii) you have not known about this so far.
Dealing with a cheating spouse should be done in a rather matured way than simply giving out the emotional outbursts. It will always be wise to look out for signs to know if your partner is cheating on you if you start to suspect so.